When one parent has an addiction, it can be a challenge to try and advocate for custody. When the addiction is a sexual one, it introduces another layer of complication. “Sexual Addiction and Custody Disputes,” a recent article in the ABA Family Advocate, discussed how sexual addiction can prompt judgments that negatively impact child custody arrangements.

Addiction is a chronic condition that needs treatment, and sexual addiction is no different. At issue, however, is how sexual addiction can affect, or has already affected, the couple’s children. Has a child been exposed to pornography, or viewed sexual behavior? Have they observed inappropriate adult behavior? Does the parent engage in this behavior around the children?

It’s possible that the sexual addiction is a small part of an otherwise exemplary parenting record; however, courts and the ex-spouse may not see it that way. That’s why it’s important to get a professional assessment of the parent to understand all the potential issues. An attorney may recommend a psychosexual evaluation for background purposes.

Importantly, the authors of the article asserted, the parent in question must take ownership of the addiction. They must show recognition of the problem and the steps taken to address it. In fact, a credentialed mental health provider could testify about that parent’s progress if they are in treatment. That can go a long way as to whether the parent can safely spend time with the children. The court will determine whether the parent needs supervised visits. In addition, if the parent is accused of having child pornography, this is a criminal matter and must be treated as such.

The judge also may order a forensic custody evaluation. This is an in-depth analysis of everyone in the family by a mental health professional. It’s worth noting that being late to appointments and other forms of passive resistance will be reported as part of that analysis. Children will also be interviewed.

Knowing the law and having a top Pennsylvania custody lawyer on your side can help you navigate arrangements, school choice, and extracurricular needs and structure. Contact us at Williams Family Law by phone at 215-340-2207 or email info@bucksfamilylawyers.com.